The muse, the healer, the lover.
I love what I do. I am a healer in so many ways. Men come to me to enliven them, to assist with their fantasies, and to elevate them to a level they may fear to ask for otherwise. This industry is a space of shadow, of secrecy, of vulnerabilities, desires and fantasies…And we women, we are the muses, the witches, the healers, and lovers. We are the facilitators of this sacred space. Many do not realize the real work that occurs, the weight that is carried. I refuse to let someone assume or demean me, to label me as a slut, inauthentic, greedy. What I create is far from inauthentic, I create genuine connection, our space allows vulnerabilities to be seen, and shadows to be loved. What is so powerful about this work, is the ability to offer something unexpected, share a lesson and a moment that some of the men would not otherwise receive. I am able to use my allure, something as women, we’ve been ostracized for, to bring wealth and power to myself, and intimacy to others. It is deeper than erotic entertainment, it is much more than finessing a trick, we are the mistresses of this art, we have the key to these hidden desires. In a world where sexuality is still (unbelievably so) taboo, and men fear conversing and processing the pain and imprinted habits, this is one of the few spaces where conversations can be had without the fear of being called out or demonized. I invite inquisition, I demand my boundaries to be respected, I share little lessons in consent, in love, in true connection. It is a space where men will speak their minds often shamelessly, and also they will listen. It is a space to share ideas, to be able to have open conversations with women and for us to share our wisdom with them. As shrouded in mystery and darkness as this industry can be, it’s actually a space for illumination. So when I stand up for myself, I am standing up for all the women, healers, and hustlers out there. We are the undercover agents of change, so I invite those to come to my house of erotic truths and healing. We do much more than “seduce and destroy” we enlighten and elevate.